Calm Down Elders!

This was a busy week! I have some pictures I think, but I left my camera behind.

I heard this was graduation week for y’all in Folsom! Congratulations to Sara and all y’all who graduated! This is a big step in your life! Be willing to embrace the changes that will push you to be an active member of society and help you to draw closer to God. It’s only been a year since I’ve graduated, and a lot has changed since that time. It is a good thing! I also want to recognize those who have given their lives for this great country in honor of Memorial Day. I found very hopeful verses in the Book of Mormon for those who have given their lives in such a way (Alma 24:19, 27:12).
This week, we met with several families in the ward to invite them to invite one friend to church this month. I have learned a lot about how to continue to do missionary work after my mission and I have learned a lot about how to really gain the trust of members and those you teach.
One particular learning experience was our zone conference on Wednesday! The focus was on Chapter 12 and 13 of Preach my Gospel I learned so much from this meeting, but two points I took away are that we need to actively prepare investigators to continue in the gospel after baptism, and when talking to members we need to show lots of respect and charity. Sister Weed smacked down on this! She gently rebuked everyone and told us we need to start every active member meeting by getting to know them; we need to remember their names and things about them; we need to be on time or call if we will be late; we need to set up lessons at least 2 days before; we need to be professional; and we need to be at church early to greet everyone! At the end, stake President Hamilton and his family shared their experiences and blessings from being actively involved with the missionaries! The daughter talked about how she would make CDs of appropriate music for the missionaries. If I may be so bold, I would invite anyone reading this to be more involved with the missionaries. Tell them about your friends, and ask them to follow up with you on your missionary efforts. Offer to help them (Don’t just ask them if they need help and let them get away with a sheepish “we’re good”.) Doing missionary work will make you happier! The gospel will make you happier! I have seen the difference in people that are more engaged and those who aren’t. Of course, in the end, don’t push yourself too hard.
I learned this for real this week. Elder Byrd and I had an awesome exchange with one of our zone leaders, Elder Anderson. He was a great example to us, and gave us the push we needed to be more aware of our surroundings and more willing to talk to people. However, the next couple days, I was getting discouraged. I wanted to be where he was, but I felt like I was going further back. In church, a member passed by us and said, I think, “You are working too hard elders! Calm down!” We were both very confused by this comment; Elder Byrd didn’t even hear it. Then, during Elders Quorum meeting, while we talked about acting on spiritual promptings, I realized that my head was too boggled with wanting to do everything all at once. I learned that I need to calm down and clear my head to recognize promptings better. The experience will come as I make little steps. I also remember a memorable quote from a Sister who spoke in sacrament meeting, “We don’t need to do a balancing act on the iron rod, we just need to hold on.”
Thank y’all for your prayers! I am grateful for all of your examples in my life!
-Elder Samuel Runyan
Galatians 6:9-10

9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

10 As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.